Sunday, November 8, 2009

protective big brother

The other day out on the playground, Alec was pushing Charlie in the swing. Charlie just loves this because half the time Alec will fake get hit and do a silly reaction. This time, one of Alec's friends was digging in the sand nearby and he noticed if he held the shovel out just right, it would get close to touching Charlie's feet on Charlie's upswing. Alec thought that Charlie was going to get hit and immediately stopped Charlie's swing, scowled up his face and shouted, "Don't do that to my brother!" I didn't know whether to delight in the sweet brotherly love, or seriously suggest he use kind words. It was really cute. I couldn't help but smile.


Lest any of you get too jealous let me say that this picture was taken in the summer. No we're not wearing shorts and a short-sleeved shirts still. We at least wear pants. :)

Sunday, November 1, 2009

Halloween Bash

Since we already had a tiger costume that would fit Charlie were were throwing around some ideas like Jungle Book and Winnie-the-Pooh; however, Alec wanted to be a lion so we worked with that. I found a lion jumpsuit at Savers and threw together the rest.

In the early afternoon we practiced trick-or-treating along one of the main streets around here that had the businesses pass out candy. Charlie got the hang of taking candy out of a bowl, but didn't really want to put it in a bag... not when his mouth was ready for it! Then we had barely any time for naps before going to our two-ward party/carnival. Alec was mostly scared of everyone costumes and the crowds but had that bizarre fascination where although he didn't want to do anything by himself or even let go of our hands, he also didn't want to leave. It wasn't too hard to convince him to head on over to our courtyard party with words like, "watch a movie outside, pizza, friends, jack-o-lantern contest, costume parade, caramel apples and more trick-or-treating."

I actually got to relax at this courtyard party for a few minutes. It helped to have two other awesome CAs and to have the children basically immobilized with a movie. Alec was a pro trick-or-treater, said "thank you" and even happily gave ("just one") candy to other kids who came to our patio. Charlie, having already mastered the grabbing part, perfected the stashing part, yet still had trouble with the stopping part. Luckily most people let him take a few handfuls before Chris had to tear him away. Overall, it was a fun Halloween.

Alec was crying from something seriously trivial and my mind wandered from concern to "we don't have very many pictures of this face even though we see it daily" I couldn't resist.

Thursday, October 29, 2009

Written name

Alec wrote his name all by himself for the first time this week. He already knew how to draw a capital "A" and a lowercase, "l" and "c" we just needed to teach him about "e." He was so proud, we were/are so proud. We let him stay up late so he could practice it with paper and marker, like he asked to. Come to think of it, he's pretty good (like all kids, I'm sure) at delaying bedtime.

Tuesday, October 27, 2009

Car the Pumpkin

Last year in anticipation of pumpkin carving I remember telling Alec all day that we were going to carve the pumpkin that night. When we actually sat down to do it, he brought over a matchbox car and wanted to 'car pumpkin.'

This year, there was no cute word mix-ups, but we still had lots of fun. Charlie loved looking at it with the candle all lit up, and Alec only hesitated for a few minutes before putting his hand in the pumpkin goop.

We went to Ardenwood Farms on Saturday and saw a lot of farm animals up close, helped card/spin some wool, climbed up this massive hay pyramid and picked out some pumpkins. You forget how huge cows actually are until you see them up close. Alec was pretty nervous and decided to stay a few feet away from any of the fences. We did get him to pet a sheep! Charlie just had shots the other day and was pretty tired but he liked climbing on the hay. I just love fall.



p.s. I write this as Alec is trying to fall asleep upstairs and throughout the whole drafting process, I've heard the following phrases, alternated, and varied in pitch and volume:

"Mommy, Daddy, Alec, Charlie"
"come upstairs"
"I have my question, Mommy"
"come up here"
"Mommy come here"
"I got some owies on my head"

ok, well that last one is new, I better go investigate.

Friday, October 23, 2009

He's one!

Charlie had a great birthday. He loved the house decorations and loved having dinner early so we could share cake and ice cream out in the courtyard. He acted pretty chill yet slightly interested throughout the whole event. He liked wearing his party hat, he liked watching all the other kids, he liked eating cake and ice cream, and he liked opening presents.

Alec was such a nice and patient brother and behaved very well watching his little brother get spoiled on his birthday. I was very impressed.

Above is his reaction to his first big bite of ice cream. He LOVED the ice cream.



Charlie is so friendly! He likes to give hugs to good friends, and even walked up to his doctor to have her hold him! He smiles a lot and is not afraid to hold his own around big kids. If what he wants is in the middle of a bunch of rowdy 4 year olds, he'll just walk on through and even try to take toys from them. He thinks he's much older than he is and tries to do everything Alec does. He loves to walk and often just paces around the rooms holding toys or touching furniture. He goes to sleep all by himself, loves to eat crayons, chalk, sand, twigs and bark. He makes a really sad face and depressed cry when he can't have something he wants. He likes to put things in things (ex. balls in cups), push around cars and hit balls with sticks, clubs, or bats. He's handsome, sweet, daring and charming. We LOVE our little Charlie.

Sunday, October 18, 2009

tickle spot

I found Charlie's tickle spot! As we played the Wake-Me-Up-And-I'll-Tickle-You game with Alec, Charlie wanted in on the action. I gave him a thorough tickle and instead of just smiling and walking away, Charlie hunched his shoulders, curled up and laughed! It was so fun to hear. (Especially since most of the sounds out of his mouth lately have been seemingly urgent, shrill screams... teething?) The sweet spot is right on his neck/shoulders. Ahh... so rewarding. It only took me a year to find. That's right, Charlie will be 1 this week. CRAZY. Here is a picture of the tickle spot, in all its cute, baby-chub glory.

Friday, October 16, 2009

The truth comes out

It seems some of you are living in a slightly altered version of reality. I doubt I'm the "fun mom" some of you think I am. You can't believe how often I was told that I'd be such a fun mom. I was even expecting to be so. I'll be perfectly honest. Yes, sometimes I can be a fun babysitter or playschool teacher. I even will have a fun moment or two as a mother, but most of that really is just an instant while I try to get the kids engaged in something so I can finish up the dishes, check email or fold laundry.

It was actually pretty hard for me to deal with not being as fun of a mom as I'd always thought I'd be. I just don't have the energy to make those fun moments last longer than 2 minutes. Hopefully this will change. I'm trying to multi-task/work less so I can just play with my kids and enjoy them. I am working on it but I am far from there.

Least any of you think I'm looking for compliments let me say that this post is solely for being real. Truth is, I don't think I'm some super amazing ultra-fun mom. I have good days, I have bad days. I'm normal. (Well, except to you, Chris. You can go on believing that I'm the best thing in the world. I don't mind that altered reality.)

When it comes to parenting, the "fun" title goes to Chris. This dad is amazingly fun. He always (and I really mean ALWAYS) has time to repeat an action if there is a chance one of the boys will laugh at it again. He rarely tires from playing with the kids and just seems to eat up his time with them. Three cheers for Chris, the fun dad!