Saturday, June 30, 2018

The Guest House project - Demo through drywall

So.  We have this little building next to our new garage that the realtor when we bought the house always referred to as a guest house.... although that name is misguiding. Its really not much. It was staged as some kind of 'man cave' when we bought the house with a foosball table and chair set up in the back area. Neighbors have told me various rumors about it one being that it used to be a chemistry lab for the original building who was a chemistry professor at MSU. Other people said a 'famous' painter lived in our house and probably used it as his workshop.  During the time we've owned the property it has seldom seen any use. The AC unit quickly broke and we used it mainly as a storage space but without the AC and with the southern humidity it didn't serve that purpose really well as we lost some furniture we stored there (like the baby crib we've used for all our kids before Max) to mold and mildew.

We've often thought it was an untapped resource and may make our property increase in value if we fixed it up to be useful.  Our Trek daughter, Emma Grace, wondered if we might have been serious about letting her live there while she went to school in the next town Columbus.  I was thinking it would be a good reason to fix it up a bit so we tentatively planed on that. Things for Emma Grace changed when she got engaged. She'd only need a place to stay for a month and a half.  At the same time we found out about a couple who would be newly married and moving into the ward and needing a place to live just for a year.    ANYWAY (this is a lot of back story!) the more we thought about it, we felt like it would be mutually beneficial to rent out the space to the married couple for a longer period of time and just give Emma Grace a bedroom and bathroom in our house for the month and a half that she needed a place.

By the time this was all figured out, it was mid June and we needed to have the place ready for the new couple by August. So we had a major project to work on fast. Our original thoughts were to do all the work ourselves so we could learn and practice on a safe, smaller-scale place that we weren't currently living in before we tried to do similar updates in our bathrooms inside our house. We scheduled out the remaining weeks of summer and tried to think through the building/renovation process and set out a plan.

Our first demo work started first week of June, and we started piling drywall and wood outside, and insulation neatly stacked inside for future use. We got a dumpster delivered a week later and hired Holden Gines to transfer our pile of junk from the lawn to the dumpster as we continued to work. Chris was still being paid to do research over the summer, and advising students so he would typically go to work early in the morning, work through lunch and come home mid afternoon to then go work out in the guesthouse. I'd try to be ready to hand out Max to the older kids to babysit in the house and join Chris out in the guesthouse every moment I could. I think this is the first time we used the phrase, "Max Duty" (a phrase we'd use for years!).  Then I'd go in and fix dinner and Chris would come in to eat with us and then head back out. I'd put the kids to bed and then go out and join him working until we were too exhausted usually around 9 or 10 (or even 1:00am if we felt really pressed for time). We hardly ever got done all the work we hoped to, but Chris was patient and steady and assured me we'd get it done eventually. I get so excited at the beginning of projects and I push us both to start them and make it happen but then I often lose steam as the project wears on and getting behind schedule would make me sad.


The building consisted of 3 separate spaces: a room at the back, a hallway, closet and teeny bathroom in the middle and a small kitchen-type area in the front. When you first walked into the building, you would only be able to take a step or two before you'd run into a wall that housed the AC unit, then to the right of that was the water heater hidden behind a cupboard, and directly right of that was a tiny sink then the corner where an old piece of counter had been tacked up with some 2x4s and spread the length of the side wall under the side window. Our idea was to open up the entire space to create as much visual space as possible. This involved raising the ceilings by removing the drop ceiling tiles and putting canned lights in a drywalled ceiling, redoing the bathroom to use the space better, move the water heater to the back, framing in a closet area in the back to house the water heater, removing the wall that created the hallway and its closet, taking out the broken AC unit and instead install a modern, smaller unit that would hang on the outside of the wall in one of the rooms. 

To make sure we could take out the walls we wanted to, we had our guy Vick Pitts who did our kitchen remodel come look at it and give us his professional opinion. He kindly gave us an hour of his time as he talked us through it. The only problem he pointed out was that in the hallway and in all the corners, they but the studs the opposite way so they protruded out past the drywall.  Vick wondered if the whole building wasn't first some kind of carport/shed that had been extended to create the bathroom and front kitchen-y type space. Chris and I decided we could figure out how to chip out the protruding wood pieces or at the very least, drywall around them.

We hired out the AC install ($2000), and electrical work ($800) and also hired a guy to move the water heater ($800).  Otherwise we planned to do everything else ourselves in the evenings across 6 weeks.  We are some kind of crazy.



Demo is always fascinating for the kids. Charlie liked swinging the sledge hammer at the crusted, glued on vinyl flooring. Freddy liked whacking a hammer into the drywall, and Alec liked to come out and join us at night when all the kids were in bed, helping me carry drywall pieces out, or holding the flashlight for Chris.



This flooring was a BEAST. We tried so many methods to get it off: breaking it up with a sledge hammer, scraping it with special scraping blades for our sawsall tool, shoving our ice picker from Canada at it with as much force as our arms could muster, chipping it out with a hammer and chisel.  It was brutal. The ceiling had TONS of wasps nests and we spent an entire night trying to replace the wire netting in the attic vents.


We had to reroute the plumbing in the little bathroom so the shower head could come out of a side wall... allowing us to take out the wall that separated the toilet from the shower.  Now we could install a corner shower unit with a curved glass enclosure. Totally opened up the bathroom without increasing square footage! But this also meant we had to move the shower drain - cutting into and removing concrete, and installing new pipes/drain.




Then we installed the shower base and started hanging the cement board (with its layers of waterproofing) and drywall.



Hanging the big sheetrock boards on the ceiling with just Chris and I was impossible. We got some guys to come over for a night to help...Thank you missionaries and Troy Hurran!! After spending so so much time trying to chip out the protruding wood from those weird 2x4s at the end of the old hallway, we decided to just drywall around the protrusions in the corners. Its not the ideal solution, and I hate doing things not the right way, but we didn't have the right tools or the time to spend on something only cosmetic. 


We decided mid project to move the bathroom door to the side a bit to allow space for the sink to go next to it along the same wall which would give more knee space at the toilet.


We spent endless hours mudding and taping and sanding - Spencer Leigh came over one night to help.  We learned a lot about drywall and have decided that everyone we spoke to was right - its totally worth it to hire it out to professionals.  Its not like we didn't believe them, but we just wanted to at least have tried it once. It didn't look too complicated and its really not, but mudding is seriously an art and the dust from sanding is terrible without the right kind of sander that vacuums it up as you go. I didn't wear a mask at the beginning and my lungs started to hurt anytime I breathed in deep for a few days.  I took Chris' advice to wear a mask more seriously after that!


By now it was the end of June and we'd be leaving for a week and a half to go to Utah for a reunion and Gwen's baptism. It was SO hard to leave knowing we were behind schedule but we felt good about the progress we made and all the things we learned. Besides, we already had the kitchen cabinets safe in our garage, ready to install, we could pick back up when we returned....what could go wrong? ;)

Thursday, June 28, 2018

Summer Fun

The boys had fun with the dress ups, putting on as many girly things they could find and sang a song and did a dance for us for a Family Home Evening talent moment. 


I wasn't feeling well and Alec made me a card to help me feel better. His sense of humor is quite enjoyable. Also, his talent for drawing and artistry is developing well.



It is SO HOT here in the summer. Truly the only way to bearably be outside sometimes is in water. I'm surprised how much fun can be had in this little $20 pool from walmart.


But the funnest water times we have is when we go to Lake Tiak-o-K'hata with friends. Charlie is getting brave and goes off the high dive, usually once. Little Max is sure a handful with the sand and sun - he has no hair I always worry he'll burn bad! I tried to nurse him to sleep but the sun was so bright, I used a towel and an umbrella to get shade but then theres no wind and with the humidity its sweltering. I managed to get him to sleep for a few minutes respite of holding him, as I laid him down on a makeshift bed of towels and floaties.  Its a challenge to take all the kids to the lake by myself but it is worth it every now and then for the kids to have some fun outside.


Our garden is growing like crazy! We didn't watch it carefully enough and a lot of the vines have grown through the mesh... I can't even take the mesh off anymore.  Every year it seems we try at a garden and rarely does it feel very successful...but I still love to try. 



Charlie wanted to do a summer program at school. There were dance ones, and theater ones, but he chose an art one. It only lasted a few weeks and he came home with some really cool art. It was fun to go see him get acknowledged at the final 'assembly' for the little summer programs.


Some of my favorite moments ever are when I catch all my kids happily reading independently.  This usually happens the first hour or so that we come home from the library. The older kids are really enjoying the books in the Diary of a Wimpy Kid series... I think its because its part-comic-part-novel.



Thursday, June 14, 2018

Max eats everything

Max's first solid baby food was towards the end of May. He didn't really like it. But we've been giving him chances almost every day to try it in an effort to fill him up so he starts sleeping through the night better!  The kids love to help feed him, but Max also loves to feed himself now.  As his teeth come in, he loves to gnaw on stuff (his hands, my cheek, chin or shoulder or food) and is exploring other things to do with his mouth like sticking out his tongue and blowing raspberries! He takes this very seriously and will blow them for so long with such concentration. 









Wednesday, June 13, 2018

Summer progress and Max eats strawberries

We finished the demo! We debated taking out both walls around the closet area for a while. Well, actually, Chris always wanted to take both out, I'm was the only one debating for a while. I couldn't decide which would be better/more versatile: having it be a totally open studio or a small living room with a separate bedroom.  In the end we went with a totally open studio since it would make the place feel bigger and it would allow more options... since you can always put up a divider of some kind. 



The kids have been pretty good at self-entertaining. Especially right after we get home from the library:


Max continues to grow and is starting to eat real food. We started him off with strawberries and his favorite thing about it wasn't eating it necessarily but squishing it between his fingers. 







Friday, June 8, 2018

Swimming Lessons

We signed the kids up for a week of swimming lessons. This year, Freddy got to take them too! He's such a happy, eager little boy. He was good and brave for everything except jumping in the water. He always told his teachers to "Get closer....closer.....closer...." in a tone of voice like he's excitedly leading them on a hide and seek game. And then he'd jump as far as he could and practically land on their head. Haha. 



They put Charlie in the top group since he didn't seem nervous about swimming the entire length of the pool. Gwen and Alec and one other boy they broke off to be able to help them more, but Alec would've been fine in either group.





Meanwhile Max and I would sit at the tables outside the pool and pass the time talking with other moms. Max would enjoy watching the kids if I let him stand on the top edge of a chair back so he could see over the wall.  Gwen offered to trade the toy she picked out of the treasure box with another little girl who was crying about the toy she got. It was so nice and big of Gwen. I'm so proud of my kids. 

Saturday, June 2, 2018

Shooting and Motorcycle rides with the Picards

Ryan Picard was our home teacher before the newly announced Ministering program changes. The kids have been begging him to give him a ride on his motorcycle so one Saturday Ryan, texted and asked if that day was a good day to come over. Every kid got a ride and enjoyed it! Even for just the few minutes that the motorcycle sat in the sun while we first talked about things, the seat got so hot, we needed to cool it off with a cool, wet, rag.  The helmet BARELY fit Freddy. Ha! Freddy's arms were so small, and the helmet so big that he couldn't fit his arms around Ryan with his head facing forward so he had to turn his head to the side. Ryan said 1/2 way through the ride, he felt Freddy's arms go a little slack and worried that the heat and vibration was putting Freddy to sleep so he had to quickly come back. hahaha. 





While Ryan and his cute wife Emily, who I work with in Primary, were over for the motorcycle rides, the kids begged Ryan to bring his little kid guns over to let them shoot. Ryan and Emily were so sweet and obliged a few hours later after buying some rounds (which he wouldn't let me pay for!) at Walmart.  He let them shirt the kid-sized shotgun and a handheld pistol.  He set up 2 targets about 40 yards away.  The kids LOVED it. Turns out Gwen is a sharp shooter! She was the first to hit the smaller target and continued to hit it almost every time! Impressive.






This one one of the highlights for the kids this summer. Chris and I were so busy remodeling the guest house with every possible spare minute that the kids were mostly left to fend for themselves and we didn't do a whole lot of out-of-the-house fun. 

Of course, Ryan let Chris and I have a go with the shotguns and pistols too. I wasn't good at the shotgun like Chris, but I did better with the pistol.  I can totally see why people do this for fun and it makes me interested in getting a gun.